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The Path

"Guiding People on the Path to Change"

A Publication by PA Treatment & Healing

 

www.pathtochange.org

 March 2010, Volume 2, Issue 9

From the President’s Desk...


The 100/0 Relationship Principle

It’s been said that “Eighty percent of life’s satisfaction comes from meaningful relationships.”  When we look back at the end of our lives, what will really matter?  Five words…the quality of our relationships.  The most important things in life are not things.  For this reason, I’ve decided to share with you an excerpt from the 100/0 Principle by Al Ritter:

What is the most effective way to create and sustain great relationships with others? It's the 100/0 Principle: You take full responsibility (the 100 percent) for the relationship, expecting nothing (the 0 percent) in return.  Implementing the 100/0 Principle is not natural for most of us. It takes real commitment to the relationship and a good dose of self-discipline to think, act and give 100 percent.  The 100/0 Principle applies to those people in your life where the relationships are too important to react automatically or judgmentally. Each of us must determine the relationships to which this principle should apply. For most of us, it applies to work associates, customers, suppliers, family, and friends.

Step 1 – Determine what you can do to make the relationship work...then do it. Demonstrate respect and kindness to the other person, whether he/she deserves it or not.


Step 2- Do not expect anything in return. Zero, zip, nada

Step 3- Do not allow anything the other person says or does (no matter how annoying!) to affect you. In other words, don’t take the bait.

Step 4- Be persistent with your graciousness and kindness. Often we give up too soon, especially when others don’t respond in kind. Remember to expect nothing in return. 

At times (usually few), the relationship can remain challenging, even toxic, despite your 100 percent commitment and self-discipline. When this occurs, you need to avoid being the "Knower" and shift to being the "Learner." Avoid Knower statements/thoughts like "that won't work," "I'm right, you are wrong," "I know it and you don't," "I'll teach you," “that’s just the way it is.” “I need to tell you what I know,” etc.  Instead use Learner statements/thoughts like "Let me find out what is going on and try to understand the situation," "I could be wrong," "I wonder if there is anything of value here," “I wonder if…” etc. In other words, as a Learner, be curious!

This may strike you as strange, but here's the paradox: When you take authentic responsibility for a relationship, more often than not the other person quickly chooses to take responsibility as well. Consequently, the 100/0 relationship quickly transforms into something approaching 100/100. When that occurs, true breakthroughs happen for the individuals involved, their teams, their organization and their families.

All my best,

Jerilyn

Jerilyn A. Keen

President

 

Board of Directors

Timothy Gage

Chairman

Jerilyn A. Keen

President

 

Fred Martin

Director

 

Chris Bingaman

Director

 

Dr. Chris Boyatzis

Director

 

Ted Hancock

Director

Dr. Troy Williamson
Director

 

Gene McCarty 

Treasurer

 

Erica Frey

Secretary

Advisory Committee

Jerilyn Keen

Scott Constantini

Stephen Gaito

Robert Vanderwall

William Rossnock

Joseph Talarico

Dr. Liz Ciaravino

Thomas Bell

William Weber

Larry Weidman

John Gigunto

Matthew Yonkin  

Joshua Weisen

 

Mental Health Director- Dr. Frederick Maue

Medical Director- 

Dr. Vikas Passi

 

Psychological Consultants

Dr. Matthew Emery & Associates

Dr. Antoinette Hamidian

Roger Smothers & Twin Tier Psych Services

Dr. Sara Camaerei

Lycoming Therapuetic Wrap Around Services, Inc.

Pamela McCloskey

Dr. Hugh Smith & Associates

Karen Livingood

Dr. Elizabeth Ciaravino

Dr. Jennifer Hartey

Dr. Kenneth Kindya

News from our Corporate Office..

PATH would like to welcome the new member of the Board of Directors, Dr. Troy Williamson.  Dr. Williamson is a retired Warden of the Lewisburg Penitentiary among other penitentiaries and has over 22 years experience in the prison and correctional facility environment!  Dr. Williamson earned his doctorate in Philosophy at the University Of Texas A&M and achieved his Masters in Vocational Rehabilitation at the University Of Texas.  Dr. Williamson holds a Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology from the University of Texas as well.  PATH looks forward to his contributions and guidance as a board member and we are proud to have him as a part of the PATH family.

President, Jerilyn A. Keen, instructed a “Suicide Prevention & Self Injury” training at the Corporate Office in March.  This training gives an in depth look at the root of the topic, how to detect early warning signs of potential suicide or injury to one’s self, and methods to help prevent these incidents.  Many of the attendees stated that the training “Was challenging and made me aware of signs that I was never aware of”.  The group consisted of group activities as well as role plays to give a real life simulation and feel to the situations discussed.

Human Resource Manager, Heather Bickhart has been hard at work instructing the PA Treatment & Healing staff in CPR and First Aid.  This is a mandatory training that all PATH staff must have if they are in direct contact with the youth we serve. Heather has been through her first couple trainings and is feeling confident in her abilities as an instructor as she keeps progressing along.  Heather’s goal is to drive home the key points of the training while making the training fun and informative for those who attend.

On March 3, 2010 the Corporate Office hosted a D&A Clinical Staff Meeting for the D&A counselors instructed by D&A Facility Director, Michele Barrows and Program Compliance Manager, Erica Frey . The day was spent providing training on Dept. of Health regulations, PATH policy and procedure and reviewing and consulting on difficult D&A cases in order to improve the skills and knowledge of our D&A Counselors. Erica stated that PATH recently completed the yearly site reviews conducted by OMHSAS. Across the board was great success in the results!. Congratulations to everyone in the Intensive Adolescent Program and all those who assist in making this program a great success!

This is “What’s Happening” at our Centers…
PATH – Bloomsburg: New beginnings are the focus of the Bloomsburg center this past month.  Program Manager, Jodee Strine is proud to announce the positive discharge of Gavin W., Liz M., Coty Q., and Ryan L.  The Bloomsburg center wishes these youth the best of luck in their future endeavors. Outstanding performance team!  Keeping in the spirit of new beginnings, the youth of the Bloomsburg center have been studying relationship building and communication skills and participating in group activities to strengthen these skills.

The youth at the Bloomsburg center were treated to two guest speakers this past month.  Katelyn Boudman spoke to the Day Treatment clients about overcoming addiction. Katelyn is a recovering addict building on 5 years of sobriety!  She gave an in depth look at the struggles she faced on a daily basis while in recovery and allowed the clients to share their experiences and helped them realize that they are not alone. Beth Sweeting from the Women’s Expectations Center, spoke to the youth on relationships and reinforced our 4 Cornerstones of Relational Intimacy. Beth had the youth participate in group activities that made the education on relationships fun and exciting and memorable. A special thanks to these two volunteers for sharing their stories and helping our youth build a stronger foundation.

The Alternative Education Program was hard at work creating clay models of their studies in plate tectonics and invertebrate animals.  These clay models allowed the children to generate their own creations as they studied the detailed parts of each group.  A special thanks to Secretary, Miss Diane from the youth and staff at the Bloomsburg Center for all her hard work and dedication to the center. Miss Diane goes over and above the call of duty and everyone at the center wanted to give their thanks.  Great performance Diane!  


PATH – East Stroudsburg: Spring is in the air at East Stroudsburg. The youth spruced up the East Stroudsburg center during an art class by designing spring time themes on the walls of the center as a project.  Aside from adding a spring theme, the entire center has been giving 100% at improving the appearance and attitude of the center. The youth are designing posters that will be displayed throughout the center with positive and uplifting messages that they have designed to inspire each other.  

The Alternative Education Program students have been studying the history of planet earth. However, the education is anything but standard.  The students completed a “fiber to fashion” project that studied the relationship between the products used to design and make clothes and the effects the materials have on the environment.  

 

PATH – Honesdale: The Honesdale center has come roaring into March like a lion and is planning to keep the momentum for the rest of 2010.  Program Manager, Mark Bonifiglio is proud to announce two additional pledge members, Nikole and Ryon, which brings the total to 5!!  Nikole used her reward option to introduce the center to Arroz con Pollo, which is a native dish from her culture.  Ryon is not just earning his Pledge status, but he is also preparing his senior project with Head Community Monitor, Lee Viola, by building a bookcase and planning on becoming certified in First Aid and CPR before he graduates in June.  Amazing job Ryon and Nikole! 

The Honesdale AEP students are ready to attack the PSSA tests in April like a lion and take great pride in their success.  The students are focused, eager, and determined to succeed.  Some of the IA and AEP youth were introduced to an excellent group exercise, the Welded Ankle.  The groups participated in a “trust walk” which blindfolds certain group members and the other members maneuver the blindfolded members through obstacles and tasks.  The exercise was a success as all the groups trusted in each of their group members and relied on the support of each other to overcome the obstacles and reach their destiny.  The groups took what they had learned and applied it to their mission and journey at PATH as they put their trust in the staff to help them overcome and succeed.

 

PATH – Lehighton:  The Sweet Sixteen is not the only thing sweet in the month of March.  The youth of the Lehighton center have been preparing for the Easter holiday by coming together in group and making “sweet” Easter candy with D&A Counselor, Jess Hansen.  The youth learned, much like the NCAA teams in the basketball tournament, the importance of teamwork to achieve success.  The clients were  instructed on the importance of confidentiality by Case Worker, Scott Pomicter and Clinical Supervisor, Marisa Anderson-Riolo and the necessary steps to avoid breaches in confidentiality, with great positive response from the clients. 

The Lehighton center continues to strive towards their goal of $100.00 in the Pennies for Patients program and are very close to beating that goal!  Great job team!  On April 17th, the Lehighton center will be participating in the Autism Awareness walk at the Lehigh Parkway in Allentown, PA.  The youth are excited to take part in this walk after Miss Dana gave a detailed class for the clients on Autism. The class gave the participants an understanding at the importance of bringing awareness to this struggle that many children battle with.   

 

PATH – Middleburg:  Middleburg has earned their stripes!  The Halfway House recently instituted the new ratings system board, proudly showing off the American flag’s colors and more importantly, the progress and growth of the residents. Program Manager, Michael Burns, placed the constant reminder to the residents that nothing is given…but has to be earned!  In the same frame of mind, Michael also reports that the hard work and dedication given by the Halfway House has been earning respect in the field.  Michael reports that in a recent meeting with CBHNP, a care worker had made mention that they noticed that the PATH Halfway House does more for their residents than others.  The Halfway House would like to thank Support Staff, Rick Hornberger, for his service of over 3 years.  Rick is looking forward to spending more time with his family after 17 years of service to the youth in Pennsylvania.  Best of luck and thank you for your service!

 

PATH – Milton:  “Come Together” by the Beatles is the theme of the Milton Center this month.  Program Manager, Jon Sharpe, explains that he is proud of the teamwork between the Intensive Adolescent and After School Evening Program has been beneficial to the success of the Milton center.  Clinical Supervisor, Amanda Rathburn & Day Treatment Supervisor, Jen Wolfe have been coming together and taking a more in depth look at the clients in each program.  Successfully, they have been able to address the needs of some of the youth and have placed them in the programs that will address the needs of the clients more efficiently.

 The Alternative Education Program students have been coming together in groups to create and design their own electronic motors.  Teacher, Kurt Eck states that he is impressed by the creativity and teamwork of the students.  Teacher Curtis Munoz, has been giving the student the chance to develop their life skills by having the students simulate care for an infant.  The students have been carrying around water balloons to simulate the experience.  The youth from the different programs at the Milton center continue to donate their time in a community service effort to help the St. Andrews Church each week prepare their Community Meal for those who wish to come together in worship.  Keep up the team work Team Milton! 

“Great teamwork is the only way we create the breakthroughs that define our careers” 
Pat Riley, NBA Basketball Coach

PATH–Scranton:   The IA clients have been working hard in group exercises such as PATH relationship based training, goal setting, and daily living skills, as they strengthen their skills and achieve success.  The AEP students have been broadening their minds in the class room as they tackled the titans of Greek mythology in English class and decipher statistics and equations in Math class.  The Community Service program is eagerly looking forward at doing their part at keeping Pennsylvania beautiful as they participate in the Keep PA Beautiful program this year.  The Scranton center would like to wish Christian the best of luck as he was positively discharged from the center.  “Christian showed great improvement and soared to new heights and abilities during his time with us at PATH” stated Regional Director, Scott Constantini.

 

PATH – South Montrose: The youth at the South Montrose center are strengthening their foundations one step at a time. The Alternative Education Program has been hard at work preparing for the PSSA testing.  The students have been hard at work building their communication skills and public speaking skills by presenting their 2 page reports on different wildlife in Pennsylvania. The Intensive Adolescent clients are becoming stronger in their journey to success.  The clients have been focusing on building leadership skills and learning how to properly manage their anger.  Program Manager, Walt Gieski explained that as a reward to the students and clients for their hard work, some of the groups and classes have been held outside during the beautiful weather.  Walt explains that the youth have been highly motivated by the change in scenery for the groups and classes.  The youth in the Community Service program have been taking advantage of the nice weather to improve the appearance of the roadways in the Montrose area by cleaning up litter and debris for the benefit of the community and the environment.  

PATH – State College:  Stay focused…stay positive!  This is the mindset of the staff and clients at the State College facility.  The Intensive Adolescent clients have been generating motivational statements that have been placed throughout the center as a constant reminder of what is needed to continue the path to success. Program Manager, Kevin Ransom said that it is uplifting to the staff to see the clients finding the strength and words to motivate each other and bring an overall pride to the center that show that they are a team and not a group of individuals.  The community service program is starting to gain momentum as the weather becomes favorable in Happy Valley and the clients are looking forward to adding their contributions to society in 2010.  State College would like to welcome Clinical Supervisor, Sue Patterson and Community Monitor, Tammy Moul to the State College PATH team. 
 

PATH – Williamsport:  New ratings system means new attitudes at the Williamsport center.  The Williamsport center has recently added the new ratings system and new ratings board to the center for the different programs. Regional Director, Robert Vanderwall, states that the positive attitudes are not just with the youth, but across the board at the center.  Robert stated that an increase in positive discharges of clients is proof that the staff are committed and dedicated to the success of the child and the child taking a vested interest in their success, rather than going through the motions. 

The Be Challenged program recently made some improvements to the program with the help of Gander Mountain offering the program a very generous discount on the purchase of new winter boots for the clients. PATH would like to thank Gander Mountain in Muncy, PA for their generosity!  

 


Nancy Shires, Community Service Coordinator was nominated by the Williamsport Day Treatment Supervisor. Nancy is always in good spirits and is constantly calling churches and other organizations to see if they need help with anything. She is always smiling and sharing a good joke to lift the spirits of her co-workers. Nancy is a highly motivated team member and is always willing to help out in any way.

       

The following staff were also nominated for Employee of the Month for March:

   Ø  Linda O’Hagan, Dean Of Students - Honesdale

    Ø  James Shoemaker, D&A Counselor – East Stroudsburg

        We thank these staff for their dedication to our Agency!

Welcome to our family….

Glenn Whitt, Caseworker – Bloomsburg
Kirk Lehman, Dean Of Students – Bloomsburg
James Sauers, Support Staff – Middleburg
Sue Patterson, Clinical Supervisor – State College
Tammy Moul, Community Monitor – State College
Tina Cummings, Caseworker - Williamsport

Ashley Kennedy, Williamsport, April 4th                 Courtney Lange, South Montrose, April 7th Doreen Armitage, South Montrose, April 11th      Dolores A. Frick, Honesdale, April 18thth

 

~ Everyone has inside of him a piece of good news. The good news is that you don't know how great you can be! How much you can love! What you can accomplish! And what your potential is” Anne Frank  

PATH would like to take time to thank all the generous individuals and businesses that have given to our centers and to the children we serve.  These are the people that make up the foundation that makes our agency strong and allow us to continue to serve the children and the communities in which they live. Thank you from the PATH family and the children we serve.

MARCH 2010 DONATIONS
Jessica Hansen
1 Computer With Accessories

Dave Long, Millerstown PA
1 Dell Computer with Flat Screen Monitor

Pennsylvania College Of Technology, Williamsport PA
20 Office Chairs

The United Way of Lycoming County
Cash Donation

Joshua Weisen, Corporate Business Manager
1 Large Bag of Men’s Clothing


Upcoming Training Events

April 1st , 2010 – Dean’s Meeting – P. Charney (At The Scranton Center)
April 8th, 2010-
Safety Committee Recertification – PennSafe Michael Cuff (Corporate)
April 14th, 2010-  Manager’s Meeting – J. Keen (Corporate)
April 23rd, 2010- Exploring Current Drug Trends with special guest: Maxim Furek
*BDAP & PCB
April 28th, 2010 – Experiential Group Counseling – J. Keen (Corporate)
May 5th, 2010 – Clinical Supervisor/ D&A Meeting – E. Frey & M. Barrows (Corporate)

**Some of the PATH trainings are available to the public & other professionals. If interested in attending one of these trainings, please contact Heather at 570-649-6855 to find out more.**

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